I've always stated that a woman’s intuition
is like no other. When it comes to relationships we usually have a
good sense of what’s going on. We’ve had at least one failed relationship which
should have allowed us to gain some experience, confirming what we do and don’t
want in the future. Our self-worth should have grown and respect is no longer
just a song we sing along too but something we give and expect from our men.
We know the kind of guy we want yet life gets in
the way and we end up settling and convincing ourselves that the rotten behavior he’s displaying isn’t that bad. The Huffington Post released an encouraging piece
listing 10 reasons women remarry the wrong guy. After reading the article I
decided to integrate some of the points and list 4 reasons women choose the
wrong man. Look out for Part 2 next week.
Desperation- Everyone else is in a relationship and settling down. You’re
getting older and are constantly reminded that time is not on your side. You
want it now and feel that patience is getting you nowhere. So you take matters
into your own hands and compromise what really matters to you. The beliefs and
standards that once meant so much have been pushed aside.
Low self-esteem - If your self-esteem is low you’ll run
into the arms of someone who may not treat you right and more than likely their
self- esteem will be just as low. If your self-worth is low you won’t believe
that you’re truly worth the love and respect you deserve. Don’t underestimate
the type of signals, body language that you give off.
Obsession- We put people on pedestals and views their shortcomings as
nothing less than perfection. Obsessing over a guy is not a sign of love. This
kind of behavior will have you overlooking destructive qualities and traits
that could lead to hurt and pain further into the relationship.
Rushing into intimacy- People often mistake lust for love. Once you
start having sex it can blur the lines very fast. We no longer think straight
and get in too deep, believing we have a form of control over the situation
when we don’t. The intimacy then becomes a drug that we can’t give up and sex
becomes the foundation of a good relationship. Take the intimacy
away and you’ll sometimes find that there’s nothing left but a physical
attraction.
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