tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8049528479708614748.comments2022-03-29T11:21:10.818+01:00Real TalkK-HARThttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16948370454898399887noreply@blogger.comBlogger46125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8049528479708614748.post-43950662125891553562013-02-12T23:26:25.084+00:002013-02-12T23:26:25.084+00:00I actually agree with this. Guys don't know ho...I actually agree with this. Guys don't know how women feel at times and sometimes, they get a little too comfortable in a relationship that they forget to do what it took them to get the woman in the first place. We as women just have to accept the fact that guys don't think like we do unless they're the type who KNOW how to keep a woman. Some guys will act like it doesn't bother Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8049528479708614748.post-1786337484197764642013-02-10T04:47:42.809+00:002013-02-10T04:47:42.809+00:00Instead of trying to read his mind, why not ask hi...Instead of trying to read his mind, why not ask him why he won't ask you out? You might just get what you want. <br /><br /><br />Don't be judgemental. Appreciate it for what it is. If flirting is not expressed as ambiguous interest, then it is obvious. He would appear to you as " easy to get" or creepy and what kind of girl wants that? <br /><br /><br />With respect to Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8049528479708614748.post-71988210453993262582013-02-03T06:24:00.397+00:002013-02-03T06:24:00.397+00:00Hey, I know this is older article, but nicely put....Hey, I know this is older article, but nicely put. I very recently went through a break up with the first guy I loved. And its true we women mourn, talk, cry...I dunno what he does...but I wondered about it. Anyway, I'm blogging about the experience in a narrative form, I hope you come by and take a look...its good therapy. :-)TheGirlhttp://www.thereporterandthegirl.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8049528479708614748.post-3039629202451038692013-01-24T12:30:15.448+00:002013-01-24T12:30:15.448+00:00Many people may find it easy to talk with friends,...Many people may find it easy to talk with friends, partners or colleagues about the changes they wish to make. Sometimes however that may not be possible particularly if there is concern about how that individual may react or if the listener no matter how good a friend, simply does not understand. In those circumstances it may be useful to consider talking with someone outside of our usual Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12426929787574417693noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8049528479708614748.post-36260642162305898412013-01-20T08:06:35.916+00:002013-01-20T08:06:35.916+00:00yeah we have feelings, some are better at controll...yeah we have feelings, some are better at controlling them. me and my current break up is tearing me apart, we were together for 8 years and she decides to leave cause she doesn't know how she feels anymore... but constantly seeing me and staying the night ect. sucks, i am trying to move on but can't, it's life though and it's not perfect... i'll make it just didn't wanna Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8049528479708614748.post-43756580201063489922013-01-10T16:24:58.121+00:002013-01-10T16:24:58.121+00:00For the most part, as a man, there are certain exe...For the most part, as a man, there are certain exes I am willing to let my friends date. However, I do have certain exes that I still have ties to, talk to, had great relationships with - and the idea of a friend dating them would infuriate me. Great blog! Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8049528479708614748.post-33474768286403375432013-01-07T01:03:29.263+00:002013-01-07T01:03:29.263+00:00i have just left a very controlling man, he did al...i have just left a very controlling man, he did all the things you mentioned above, i really did think i was going crazy and he even tried to get me sectioned, but my doctor could see what he was doing and assured me that i wasn't ill. Since i left him he has tried to convince his family and friends i have a bipolar disorder and he is the wronged party in all of this, in an attempt to gain Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8049528479708614748.post-67381437441475507772012-12-31T08:04:33.334+00:002012-12-31T08:04:33.334+00:00Thanks this answered a lot of questions and doubts...Thanks this answered a lot of questions and doubts I was having. Thinking I may just pass on this one and stop dwelling on him.<br /><br />Happy New Year!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8049528479708614748.post-22417628037487294522012-12-23T18:07:17.754+00:002012-12-23T18:07:17.754+00:00There are also men such as myself who see no point...There are also men such as myself who see no point in getting married because we love the way our lives are right now. What great thing can possibly come from marriage? I hear from most of my male friends who are married that had they known what marriage would bring, they would never gone forth with it. I work hard, I play hard, I adventure the world, I do all the things I love to do, all the Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8049528479708614748.post-67101784949088511872012-12-06T05:48:31.278+00:002012-12-06T05:48:31.278+00:00Very true yesterday was looking back on my previou...Very true yesterday was looking back on my previous relatioship. I couldn't find one that never returned. Some l hve lost contact but whenever l go home l get told so and so was come by looking for you.lm guilty to say l have taken all my exes back. Not that l wanted a relationship just that l knew lt was my turn to do the dumping. It might sound spiteful yes but everytime they come back withAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8049528479708614748.post-23019353843979552922012-12-05T14:29:54.108+00:002012-12-05T14:29:54.108+00:00Another femminazi who start to talk about herself ...Another femminazi who start to talk about herself just to judge men in the end..<br /><br />MARRIAGE IS WOMEN BUSINESS. PERIOD. <br /><br />An intelligent man, TODAY, get nothing from a marriage but a free ticket to the cleaner if he doesn't submit to her femminazi wife.<br /><br />No thanks, i brave enought to face each danger in my life (im a Policeman) but marriage as it is today is not Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8049528479708614748.post-42666036082480859672012-12-01T17:48:30.845+00:002012-12-01T17:48:30.845+00:00I would never "let myself go" and neithe...I would never "let myself go" and neither would my husband. It is pride or vanity for us both. He is as trim as he was when I married him (eons ago) and I<br />am still petite and young-looking. I see these couples with either an obese wife or an obese husband and I tell my husband: "I'd leave you if you looked like that." But, I know he never would let himself go. Inaohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15148658248768030897noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8049528479708614748.post-46093143435844157022012-11-18T17:13:40.082+00:002012-11-18T17:13:40.082+00:00Sounds like it's possible you were with a narc...Sounds like it's possible you were with a narcissist.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8049528479708614748.post-53705582427888992442012-11-04T09:33:49.032+00:002012-11-04T09:33:49.032+00:00Limit the time you spend on social networks. If yo...Limit the time you spend on social networks. If you’re using social media primarily for business, make sure you’re getting a return on your time investment. I, for instance, have set times in the day to update my status and take part in the conversation. Then I close the browser and do other things. While it’s sometimes tempting to keep checking my online accounts, I know that if I do this too Rick McDonaldhttp://ninjapinner.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8049528479708614748.post-14285437536421870272012-10-08T06:19:53.910+01:002012-10-08T06:19:53.910+01:00Well based on my observation the same applies to a...Well based on my observation the same applies to a woman too......that they also do have reasons why they would not like to marry. Lets say every individual has the right to his/her own decisions.<br /><br />There is always a reason behind every act of a human being.<br /><br />As a woman and speaking for myself, I would not persue a relationship if my b/f would not want to marry me. Living Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04674607902931137696noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8049528479708614748.post-49884511282040676902012-07-16T19:20:10.824+01:002012-07-16T19:20:10.824+01:00I've written a response to the above. It will ...I've written a response to the above. It will be published tomorrow (17th July) as a blog post.K-HARThttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16948370454898399887noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8049528479708614748.post-35538249432572905342012-07-13T06:35:50.762+01:002012-07-13T06:35:50.762+01:00My ex and I have broken up for some time now, and ...My ex and I have broken up for some time now, and in that time that we have been broken up we have opened up a business together moved in with each other and even sleep on the same bed. We get into a lot of fights, and she keeps telling me she has no feelings and that we will never be together. We are eachothers back bone and we do all that we can for each other. Our fight recently are getting Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8049528479708614748.post-62604913355601121942012-07-07T01:08:52.396+01:002012-07-07T01:08:52.396+01:00He could enjoy manipulating women emotionally - ge...He could enjoy manipulating women emotionally - getting their hopes up and then crushing them. In that case he would be a passive and tricky type of misogynist. <br /><br />He could be a schizoid personality type who craves a relationship but is terrified of getting too close to someone. In that case, flirting serves as a balance between the two equal demands that allows the man to maintain Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8049528479708614748.post-57788734665204879882012-06-22T20:17:45.906+01:002012-06-22T20:17:45.906+01:00For singles, you can look into what "YOU"...For singles, you can look into what "YOU" want. If you are not and being responsible for your choice being with someone, you need to see how this may impact your partner. Many men accuse women of being insecure while they are the one who are really insecure. What if you flirt and other become obsessed with you? Unless one is very single and is not in any kind of relationship, they may Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8049528479708614748.post-6419452099731952732012-06-15T02:32:47.596+01:002012-06-15T02:32:47.596+01:00My ex boyfriend didn't seem bothered when he d...My ex boyfriend didn't seem bothered when he dumped me and jumped into a relationship with a so called friend of mine. I was devasted, bearing in mind this was the guy i had been with for 9 years. He rings me up 6 months later, crying, telling me he loves me and has made a mistake. My thoughts on this now are some men think the grass is greener elsewhere but most of the time it's not Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8049528479708614748.post-43107883280780036652012-05-21T21:06:34.895+01:002012-05-21T21:06:34.895+01:00Hi I was just looking into this topic and came acr...Hi I was just looking into this topic and came across your post. I think I know why the guy didn't call, I mentioned a mutual friend and either he wanted my # for a booty call or he felt it was too familiar too soon. But being he went out of his way to ask me for it it's bugged me ever since so the closest thing to asking him directly is seeing what others have experienced online:)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8049528479708614748.post-29637298026069347972012-05-02T09:17:33.653+01:002012-05-02T09:17:33.653+01:00All the words that I read in this article are all ...All the words that I read in this article are all important and valuable. Learning those facts are an amazing guide to know how to make a relationship last.Overcoming Commitment Issueshttp://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pkC4wVav1mQnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8049528479708614748.post-3932569379836934132012-03-22T11:26:21.700+00:002012-03-22T11:26:21.700+00:00There's also the person who saw a horrible mar...There's also the person who saw a horrible marriage in their parents and fear the same happening to them. In which case time and having a better, happier relationship themselves may eventually enable them to take the big leap..<br /><br />XXXXAnne Warehamhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13102518926229038553noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8049528479708614748.post-1278132807711747042012-01-12T13:08:18.123+00:002012-01-12T13:08:18.123+00:00What do you do if you know you are someone's &...What do you do if you know you are someone's 'Plan B' ( the best friend- but there has always been attraction..) but they are currently entertaining 'Plan A' or not even that, just entertaining what has come along for the moment. Do you sit tight and see what happens or be very honest with them? And would it make it the slightest bit of difference anyway?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8049528479708614748.post-85950642548551872712012-01-12T11:33:35.240+00:002012-01-12T11:33:35.240+00:00Damn trueDamn trueAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com